Bridges and Walls
Yes and No works likes bridges and walls.
Yes, as bridges can lead us to what we want, but if we use it wrong, it will let in everything that can hurts us.
No, as walls can prevent us of what can hurt us, but if we used wrong, it will confine us to a prisons.
Guilt can´t never be and engine or brake to action, what’s must drive us are our needs and interest, and forget about been selfish, we are in relation to others, and we are empathic beings, so respecting our self it would never be a disrespect to others.
Said Yes to what you need, and No to what you don t, chose wisely.